Introduction
Discover how to ride your man with confidence through Susan’s journey, filled with techniques and strategies to make the girl on top position your favorite. By the end, you’ll find it surprisingly easy and satisfying.
Meeting David
Susan met David at a Halloween party, where she attended last minute in a makeshift ‘sexy secretary’ costume. Their connection sparked when David jokingly teased her about being his new secretary. They soon began dating, and Susan was drawn to his humor, confidence, and bedroom skills.
Facing Insecurities
Despite their chemistry, Susan felt intimidated by her lack of experience compared to David. This became evident when he asked her to get on top, and she refused out of fear and pressure to perform. Determined to overcome her fears, Susan decided to address her insecurities systematically.
Overcoming Performance Pressure
- Communication: Susan talked openly with David to understand his preferences and shared her own. This helped her realize that he enjoyed seeing her pleasure.
- Lights Off: Turning off the lights reduced her anxiety about being watched.
- A Drink or Two: A couple of drinks helped lower her inhibitions, but she was careful not to overdo it.
- Lingerie: Wearing lingerie boosted her confidence and distracted from any body insecurities.
- Blindfold: Suggesting a blindfold added a playful element and eased her apprehension about being watched.
- Eye Contact: Susan learned to relax about eye contact, realizing she could look away or close her eyes if needed.
- Laughter: Embracing fun and laughter during intimate moments helped her enjoy the experience more.
Techniques for Riding
Susan explored various techniques to enhance her experience on top:
- Lying on Top: In the Man Missionary position, she felt less exposed and could let David do most of the work.
- Grinding: By grinding back and forth, she stimulated her clitoris and controlled the intensity.
- Bouncing: Moving up and down in Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl positions provided visual pleasure for David.
Handling Hands and Arms
Susan experimented with different positions for her hands and arms:
- Leaning back with hands on the bed or his legs.
- Leaning forward with hands on his chest or the bed.
- Resting on her elbows when leaning forward.
- Putting on a show by massaging her breasts.
Building Confidence
As Susan gained confidence, she tried new things, including having David thrust while she was on top. She learned that synchronizing movements required communication and experimentation.
Advice from Friends
Susan noticed that friends who felt pressured by their partners to be on top often lacked confidence. She advises open communication to prevent it from becoming a daunting task.
Exploring Positions
Susan found several positions that worked well:
- Cowgirl: The classic position, simple and straightforward.
- Man Missionary: A variation of Cowgirl with less exposure.
- Asian Cowgirl: Allows your partner to thrust while you stay in position.
- Reverse Cowgirl: Avoids eye contact, which can be less intimidating.
- Crab: A more advanced position for putting on a show.
Conclusion
Susan’s journey to confidently riding her man highlights the importance of understanding why you’re doing it. Ensure it’s for mutual pleasure and not solely to please your partner. A balanced relationship involves compromise and shared effort for a fulfilling experience.